So you've been talking to someone fun on Yumbunny and you both decide to take it from online to real-life. The day has arrived for you to meet this person you've been chatting with and see if the online sparks translate to in-person sparks.
Only one problem- what do you wear?
First impressions are definitely important and one of the first things your date is going to see is going to be what you are wearing. While it's important to wear something flattering, it's also important to not go overboard. Several guys, and girls, have seen a date go from promising to sour because one person decided to use the date as an opportunity to get experimental with the wardrobe.
First, pick something appropriate to the occasion and season. If you're going to a coffee shop at night in the summer time, a nice shirt and a pair of jeans is perfectly appropriate. If it looks like it's going to be chilly, take along a jacket or a sweater.
Secondly, dress comfortably. If you're uncomfortable, your date can sense it. While you do want to look your best, wearing something that makes you shift repeatedly or shoes that you can't walk more than a few steps in is going to impact your date more negatively than the positive of the look. Wear something that fits well and that you won't need to mess with all night.
Follow the "moderation rule"- nothing too short, too tight, or too low-cut. For a first date, you want to err on the side of conservative. The last thing you want is for something to show that shouldn't- whether it's an unintentional bulge from changing your position or an undergarment.
Run your outfit by a friend or two beforehand and get them to give their honest opinion. It never hurts to get a second opinion!
Finally, dress with your own style. While sticking to the other guidelines, wear something that reflects you and your personality.
Overall, the key is to be comfortable with what you are wearing. First dates are hard enough, and a "wardrobe malfunction" is the last thing you need!
2009-05-06
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