Saying hello

So you want to approach someone you see online for the first time...

What do you say?

While every person is different, there are definitely some things you shouldn't do.

1. Don't talk in "txt speak". Please type your words out. A lot of people (especially girls) will ignore messages that say, "how r u i m gd" or something similar. It doesn't have to be MLA perfect but a little grammar and punctuation go a long way.

2. Don't start off immediately with "loaded" conversation. While saying, "you're so hot I'd like to spread you all over my biscuit" may be flattering to some people, it's a little too forward for a first conversation. For a first-time chat, small talk is best.

3. Ask about the other person without being (potentially) insulting. GOOD: "What do you like to do on the weekends?" BAD: "I hope you don't like skiing because people who ski are idiots."

4. Don't propose. This may sound silly, but some people (guys especially, it seems) will start off a first-time conversation by telling the person that they want to marry them, want them to be their bride/groom, etc. If you really feel you need to make your intentions known, opt for saying you're looking for a long-term relationship.

5. Finally, be yourself. This may seem like common sense but some people act how the think the other person wants them to be. Just be yourself and you'll have much more success.